Marsha L. wrote:Yeah, I figured my post would be ignored.
Marsha,
Just got back to this thread after three days away from the web (mostly away). That accidental shooting sucks. And there are so many cases like that.
Yeah, I do wonder how effectively a gun can be hidden or safeguarded from crafty kids (my oldest is seven, and he can figure out just about anything) and at the same time remain quickly available for "self-defense" in an instant. Maybe sometimes yes, but there must be some increased risk to the kids also (from accidental death).
Just a couple months or so ago, an 12 year old was shot dead here in town by his brother. They found the mom's boyfriends "hidden" gun.
http://www.whas11.com/news/local/14-yea ... 78117.htmlThe innocent kid dead to "bad guy" dead ratio is simply too high for people like me to stomach.
Guns are frequently used not to fight off "bad-guys" invading the home, but instead against people who live in the home. Crimes of passion (yes, people do argue and fight and get enraged ...some people quite often) can easily be fatal when a gun is readily available. Guns in the house make suicide much much easier. Mistaken identity, and of course accidents involving kids or adults, both provide substantial numbers of gun fatalities that simply would not have occurred if the gun wasn't there in the first place.
Secure entryways (solid doors along with reinforced frames and multiple locks) go a long way toward preventing entry. Add an audible (loud) alarm system, especially to vulnerable windows, and who the heck is going to get through? Probably the fantasy crack head PCP crazed super ninja (and his backup buddy) who are coming to get you and rape your wife and child. That seems to be the fear so many people are living in. I'll pray for ya'll..
Cheers,
(p.s. my 7 year old has had basic gun training with multiple types of guns, and no, I don't have guns in the house. Deadly weapons include knives in the kitchen, an old police billy club, and my two hands and two feet (with knowledge of techniques stored in my brain). I suppose a bunch of tools too. They all leave me feeling quite safe and relaxed. Of course tomorrow morning will find me and my son in Jiu-Jitsu class, just like every Sat morn....Peace!)
p.p.s. I do concur that a shotgun seems like a logical choice if one decides to have a gun at home for self-defense. I've always figured the sound of pumping it alone would scare someone off. (or escalate things as someone pointed out). One could keep an empty shotgun, and if the pumping of it didn't scare the intruder away, use it as a club...heehee,,,, really. And safe! (but still, it might make them pull their weapon, which they had never planned on using until you rose the stakes - really it is a can of worms you open when you add a gun to the mix)
Dr. Nimbus Couzin