We knew that we wanted to save money but we never wanted to feel deprived or poor, so here are some things that we have done.
Never pay cash. Get a debt card and use it. You are much less likely to spend a couple of bucks on a coffee or soda if you are using a card. Make sure you get receipts. Set up a spreadsheet and record EVERY ONE of your expenditures at the end of every week. This is the most important step because you'll see where you can cut your spending.
No cable. We don't watch much TV anyway but we have never missed it. You can watch a lot of shows on hulu.com and it's a lot of fun to buy and trade dvds at the Book and Music Exchange. The library also has free rentals and even better, they have BOOKS and the let you read them for FREE!
Set a budget and stick to it. Our grocery budget for the two of us is only $50 a week. It's really hard to stick to it and avoid convenience foods so here are some things I do:
Coupons. They aren't always great for foodstuff since they are mostly for junk food but they're great for cleaning supplies. All the local stores double coupons under $ .50 and the Kroger website allows you to load coupons directly to your Kroger plus card so they are also paperless. I cut all the other coupons too and share them with people that I know that are less finicky about what they eat.
Buy frozen produce. We get a CSA share in the summer and when that ends we use frozen.
Buy the meats that are on managers special and freeze them when you get home. They'll be fine. Buy whole chickens and cut them up. When the pre-cooked rotisserie chickens are on sale they are sometimes less then uncooked chicken and I can get three meals out of one.
Trade with your friends and family! Home decor, books and magazines, music, even clothes. You may be tired of it but that doesn't mean it might not be new and fun to someone else.
We don't go out as much as we like, but we will sometimes eat a light meal early and then go out later for drinks and apps so we don't feel stuck at home. Drinks, apps and meals at most places we like will run us around $80 for both of us. Not eating a meal cuts that in half. We should probably not spend as much on booze, but we like it. I would feel guilty doing this during dinner rush but since we go later I don't feel bad taking up a table.
Want to go see a show at The Palace or KY Theater? If the show isn't sold out and you call the day of the show they will sometimes cut the price of tickets by as much as HALF!
One Word: Craigslist.
Reuse and recycle. Get creative and turn that ugly pie safe your mother-in-law gave you into a cool place to store DVDs. Get out the sewing machine and turn an old shower curtain into a fun 50's style apron to give as a gift. Here's a favorite site that stirs my creative juices.
http://www.craftster.org/forum/index.php?board=363.0