It really is growing in numbers and not a case of misdiagnosis in the past. UC Irvine looked at this 5 years ago and their study showed it was an increase in cases. The incidences of Autism far surpass childhood diabetes, and childhood cancer combined. It is a epidemic. When my son was diagnosed 10 years ago it was 1 in 1500 kids now it is 1 in 150.
Like I said, I am so not an expert, or even as well informed as I should be, considering. But it sounds like you and my sister could possibly share some information. They live on Long Island, and have participated in an early intervention program since her daughter was an infant. That has helped tremendously, but the school system re-evaluated her about 2 weeks ago, and tried to say she was mentally retarded, because their test didn't show the typical symptoms of autism. Talk about a catch 22. Put her in a program to help the child learn to accept outside stimuli, etc., and punish them later because they can??? My sister was able to make them understand in a conference with the board what Lauren's behavior is truly like, but it shook her up, because the alternative school would not have offered the type of enrichment that Lauren is getting now. Anyway, I would love to hear more about your son. If you're not comfortable posting, feel free to pm, but I would love if you and my sister could exchange emails. I'll warn you though - her life is crazy, so she may not respond immediately, but I bet she would love the support/conversation.
Also - do you really think there has been an increase in the incidence? They are so still learning about this syndrome, and it's difficult to detect in a lot of cases. I have so often wondered about the causes myself, and if you have link to studies, if you could email them to me, I would much appreciate it.
Thanks much, Will, and we will definitely be out soon to taste your wonderful food we've heard so much about, and would love to meet you, and your son, if possible. Very glad your place is still an option!