by Marsha L. » Thu Sep 11, 2008 8:01 pm
That was the week John and I met in person (if you haven't heard, we first met via the internet - gasp!). We'd been on vacation in the Outer Banks and parted ways on September 10th, him back towards Georgia and me back to my parents' in Virginia (not too far from D.C.).
On Tuesday morning, I was packing the car for the trip back to Louisville and my dad was watching TV. As I went back in for the second suitcase, he said "Man, look at this. A plane hit one of the World Trade Center towers." We watched the news for a few minutes, and then I gathered up the last of my things and was saying goodbye to Mom in the kitchen when we heard Dad yell "Another one! Another one hit!"
I'll admit I thought he's mistaken, he's just watching a replay of a tape they just got their hands on or something, but as we ran into the living room we could already see he was right. We were riveted to the tv for a while, and then pretty soon came the news about the Pentagon.
My dad's an ex-Marine, and in Virginia we weren't too far from D.C. He put his hand on my arm and said "Get your stuff back out of the car - you're not going anywhere. Not today, anyway." I called the bank and told them I might not make it back to work exactly the next morning, and my boss said "Doesn't matter. Be safe. No one's doing any work here, anyway."
You know the rest of the story.
It's bittersweet because every time we're reminded of the tragedy we're also reminded that that's the week we met. I was a little panicked until John got home to answer his phone in Georgia. I left the next afternoon to come back to Louisville. It was a particularly eerie drive all those hundreds of miles with NO planes in the sky except military jets (and damned few of those). I'll never forget the first time after they let them start flying again that I saw a commercial airliner flying in over downtown Louisville. Gave me a chill, it did.
We watched a really good "Attack on the Pentagon" special this week we'd never seen before. There are lots of movies and docs about the towers and even about Flight 93, but this was the first in-depth special with interviews I'd seen that was totally devoted to the Pentagon attack (it was on Discovery HD, catch it if you can). There was a lot of drama and tension between soldiers that wanted to go back into the Pentagon after their missing comrades and co-workers and the D.C. fire brigade (I was surprised the Pentagon didn't have it's own dedicated fire dept!). Quite a stand-off between the two groups. Turns out the fire chief was exactly right to forbid them to go back in - only a few minutes later that whole section of the building collapsed.
We saw a lot of flags at half-mast today all over the state. It always reminds me to be sweet to those I love and kind to those I know every day - we never know when we're going to see each other again.
Marsha Lynch
LEO columnist, free range cook/food writer/food stylist