by Alexis Rich » Mon Jul 04, 2022 6:52 am
When my husband and I go out for dinner, if I get up from the table for whatever reason, he stops eating and waits for me. It’s so we can finish our meal together. Old fashioned but I think thoughtful and well-mannered. (Gentlemen who stand up when the lady gets up from the table are long gone. That odd, yet respectful, custom pre-dates me.)
I always thought giving the woman the menu without prices was an interesting practice. This was back in the day when the lady would likely not be paying and therefore shouldn’t worry about what her meal costs. Again, old fashioned but well mannered in that it avoided garish talk of money.
Finally, I’ve noticed that hosts are pulling out chairs for everyone these days, not just the ladies. I like it! However, is it still custom for ladies to be seated first? Is that just too old school?