Robin Garr wrote:I wonder if you get doubled down because you're alone and female?
When I was working for a national non-profit back in the '90s. I traveled alone a lot. I went to all 50 states and a handful of other Western Hemisphere nations, and when I was traveling, I ate alone almost every night. I brought a book to keep me company in those pre-smartphone days, and I tipped well. I never felt uncomfortable, though, and now that you raise this point I wonder if I got a pass due to being a male silverback gorilla.
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Alexis Rich wrote:As a former hostess, I feel qualified to chime in. I was always chatty and friendly to single diners. I offered to seat them at the bar in case they wanted to talk with the bartender, not because they didn't merit a table all to themselves. As an extrovert, my intentions were to provide company since it would be MY preference not to eat alone. Think about it, most hosts/hostess are likely extroverts. You'd need to be to consistently greet strangers night after night. I suspect most of the time, it's out of ignorance and not maliciousness. Still, I really struggle to understand introverts and I suspect many hosts/hostesses are in the same boat.
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Wed Oct 27, 2010 9:16 am
German-Paristown and Highgate Springs
David Swanson wrote:This reminds me of a classic from Steve Martin. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQ7CNUuoe3E
Gordon M Lowe wrote:Maybe small tables for one could be created? Seems like they could quickly set one up in the main dining room with just a little rearranging.
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Wed Oct 27, 2010 9:16 am
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SilvioM wrote:Gordon M Lowe wrote:Maybe small tables for one could be created? Seems like they could quickly set one up in the main dining room with just a little rearranging.
I like to dine alone (and I'm an introvert! -- a great book on us, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain. Anyway...). Partly so I don't take up a table, I prefer eating at the bar/counter when possible. I also, if I'm going to be there any length of time, bring something to read because a) I like to read and b) so the barkeep doesn't try to engage me in unwanted conversation. When I want that, I go out with friends. I sometimes get the "only one" thing, but nothing as rude as Carla described.
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