Welcome, Scot!
That situation would make me think twice about returning as well - I have a really hard time with poor customer service, especially in a place of 'hospitality'. And arguing with you about what you ordered, when he most likely misunderstood? And even if he thought he was right, take it away from the table, suck it up, and make the customer happy. I probably would have asked for a manager either then or called when I got home, and if he is the owner, I might have questioned him directly. But I'm very intolerant of that type of 'service'.
Having said all that, if the food is that good (I've never been there, but despite your post, I would like to try it), I would probably go back. I most likely would've expressed my feelings about the situation though, but if I didn't, I'd give it some time and give it another chance.
