One thing that I'd like to point out. If I'm paying a split plate charge, then I fully expect the kitchen to put it onto two plates.
I personally don't care for the server just plopping down an empty plate in front of my wife and for me to have to fumble around with splitting it at the table.
It has happened to us at a couple of what I consider to be "better" but not "fine dining" establishments.
I generally tend to tip on the high side. But if I have to split my food at the table after I asked for it to be on two plates, you can bet that the server is only going to get 15% on the check total.
It might not been their fault; but I'm certain they could have said something in the kitchen for what I see as a resonable request that I'm paying a surcharge for.