JustinHammond… I should not respond to this because it will only keep the spotlight on it longer, but the most obvious thread that I am talking about is the one on Toast. With that one little comment, many people have jumped on that bandwagon. I would much rather go to a restaurant that has a line than one that doesn’t. To me, that means people like the place and it has good food. Granted, that isn’t always the case, but it is true more often than not. For the record, I love Toast. I have never had a problem and I will be back.
The second one, I'm not giving that one up. You will have to do a little reading and figure that one out on your own. And please note that I said "potential".
Continuing with your assessment about a “celebrity”, for lack of a better word, in the building. Well, most (please note that word there) of the chefs I know try to treat all customers as equals. The same principle that this country was allegedly founded on, “all men are created equal.”
Stephen… You shouldn’t treat me any different than you would Robin. My money spends just as well as his.
Matthew D… Yes, I did read your full post. The line still angered me and I still think your opinion, while not reflective of the entire LHB community (better, Robin?

), is very elitist. Perhaps cliquish is a better word. And I even took that line about me reading it in a nice tone without being prompted.
Derrick Dones… I am a bit confused as to how I am “once again” supporting a double standard. I have only posted to LHB twice prior to this post and you can scroll up to find them. I admit to have thinking about posting to the Blind Pig post as it relates to my stance from above but have yet to do so. My evil twin perhaps?
I stand by my theory that if you have a problem with a restaurant, the restaurant should be given the chance to correct it on the spot before it is taken to a thread. Allow the establishment the full chance to show off their customer service. Jeremy even said in that thread that he wished that the problem was addressed on site (at the BP) as opposed to hearing about it via third party and to the point where there was no room for corrective action. Most places want to fix the problem there as opposed to having negative press created about them. Why are people so willing to create drama when drama can be so easily avoided?
Your second paragraph… by joining this community, am I automatically “one of you” even though I have completely taken a different stance than the majority opinion? If I open a restaurant tomorrow, would the majority of you be lined up to try my food? I share the same love of food that you all do, even if my opinion differs on certain things.
I think that you safely answered why some chefs stay away. The best intentions and responses can be misread courtesy of the Internet. If I’ve dumped my heart, soul, time and money into a place, I’d much rather keep my mouth shut as opposed to hack off my potential customers.