Robin Garr wrote:Jackie R. wrote:J Dylan wrote:
Given most of my posts have been in the asshole nature
Ding Ding Ding. How about this, J - Go out into the world and open a business, and choose then to never share with the world how you've ever F'ed up, and we'll all make fun of you for being a pansy. Go on with your bad self...
Say ... the last time J appeared on the forum it appeared to be only for the purpose of stirring up stuff, and at the time I told her that I expected an apology and a private message about getting her single-initial forum name in line with our policies.
Now she's back, still posting as just-plain "J" and stirring it up again.
What shall I do?

I thought J Dylan's over-reaching condemnation was answered quite well by Jackie. “J” should ask herself the question, “Why am I the only one here who thinks this way?” before she accuses the rest of the forum of failing to live up to her definition of right.
Had her post been couched in a less aggressive tone, she might have actually sparked a constructive dialog about the situation. As it was, her attack on a valued member followed by her self-serving excuses of prior military service and alcoholism served only to impugn her own opinion as that of a bitter person lashing out to make herself feel better.
As Jackie said, and as your own history of forbearance has amply demonstrated, anyone can freely express their own opinion on this forum as long as they do it in a respectful, thoughtful, way.
I'd like to see her given a chance to respond.