by Stephen D » Tue Jun 01, 2010 10:36 pm
Dont get too bitter, buds, let's just have fun with the debate!
There are two approaches to influence change- Yin and Yang. A good metaphor is to point to the samurai vs ninja dichotomy.The samurai would do thier work on the field of battle, in the light of day- for all to see. The ninja would do thier work with the cover of night- for noone to see. Truth be told, the ninja had the advantage of battle, because they chose when and where this would occur. The samurai was screwed, because all he could do was stand on that very battlefield, bow in hand.
So, how does one catch the ninja? When they work behind the scenes, pulling and thinly veiling insults from here to FB? We all have a modus operandi- a format that we follow, habitually. What's say we throw out a thinly-veiled insult of our own, and see if it comes out the other end? Like a charm, it worked brilliantly. Not in the way I expected, yet the vitriol was placed on a single word, 'ghey,' and that was to be the basis for a whole argument that I was bigoted.
Unfortunately, I am the most socially liberal person I guess one can be. Nah, in fact, I relish the depth and quality that my worldview has given me. My bestfriends have always come from radically different leanings than my own. One was a gay man (Robert-4 years.) One was African/Puerto Rican (Awuyale-6 years.) Another was Guyanese (Leon-8 years.) All much different than a hillybilly. I can talk to you, from a personal experience what Santaria means, share the concept of eating Thanksgiving dinner to Bob Marley and discuss the differences between the stratas of gay, fag and queen in the community (thier terms, not mine.) You never get this argument in my mind and the accusation is weak- sorry you didn't know me any better.
'I'm the first to give a hug and the last to let go.' So very true.
As per this debate. I defended Sullivan and it seems to me Steve was also following this thought. The commercial just struck him funny at the time- and he was feeling like being funny. I know, from experience that you are pulling a Stephen- that you looked to defend your house and maybe got too aggresive with it. You know I love you Marsha- I am just looking to affect change in your decision to slap us across the face on your FB page- or to use PM's as your method, either. It's easy to say 'prove it,' yet that is what the guilty say, when they know they have only been semi-busted.
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